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Short Tag Line:
Intimate (part-time) Friendships
I/We are looking for
We would like to meet folks that enjoy laughter... and the companionship of well read, bright, witty people who have an upbeat zest for living. It would be great if they also enjoyed Sensuality... a LOT! (maybe like us, sometimes several times a day). They would crave the touching, the warmth, the sensations, the aftermath of genuine Intimacy (we’ve been enjoying it together for two decades). Also like us, they’d be pretty laid-back, have VERY good manners... and seek to 'connect' with others – not just their Body-parts for short term titillation – but also to connect with minds and spirits as one does with real Friends. They would also understand the frustrations of what it's like to be a member of the increasingly smaller minority of 'In-Shapes and Slenders' (now only 1/3 of our population). In an ideal world, they would see Dining-Out, Dancing, Concerts and short-term sneak~away Travel with 'Intimate Friends', as fun and exciting in their otherwise routine daily living. They would think (as we do) that their lives and existing relationship
could be enhanced by the addition of 'part-time' genuine friends, with whom they could also be sensually intimate with.
Describe Yourself:
We work in CyberLand - over the web - designing and managing e-commerce companies; we can 'work' anywhere if the Internet is accessible. Last kid just left for college this Fall. We’re both social Nudists. Although we’ve ‘Been There-Done That’ (who hasn't)... like many others, we don’t find the, "Hi, nice to meet you, let’s F--k"... "One Night Stand" experiences (or folks) very fulfilling. The ‘Pant pant – Squirt squirt – Bye bye’ can become very vapid very quickly.
And because we frequently hang around socially with clothe-less people, 'bare-body' environments are normal to us. When you view hundreds on a weekend, the sights of the 'hidden body-parts' are not as lust-producing as perhaps they are to those who now live in worlds of 'sensual scarcity'. One quickly learns (some a little slower), that what's inside minds and hearts are far more important and interesting than the five small, fragile 'SPECIAL body-parts'.
Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
Every few weeks it would be wonderful to look forward to spending a day or two with one or more couples who enjoyed each other’s companionship. We could cookout, play cards, talk about kids, dance (the stuff that 'Friends' do)... then spend hours experimenting with sensual activities (the stuff that 'Intimate Friends' do). Maybe one time, it might be hot oil group massage... or oral; another time, threesomes, or whatever felt comfortable. Hey, it’s got to be more fun then watching TV, right? To see what it would feel like to experience that 'vision' of how people COULD lead their lives (VS the way most live now)... GoTo: http://www.geocities.com/polychum/baconandeggs.html (you’ll have to 'copy and paste'). But who knows – looking forward to the little get-a-ways might even grow on you...
What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
We're easy to get along with - soft spoken, non-judgmental, not too rowdy (only dance on tabletops with red rose in teeth occasionally... and then typically only in the Bahamas).
Pet peeves: (1) folks without the common courtesy to respond to 'Intro E-mails'... even if only to say, "Thanks for the Note - but No thanks" - mean 'Duh'. Good manners ARE a wonderful asset; (2) folks who seem so insecure (about something?), that they appear 'fearful' of even meeting people for a cocktail in a public restaurant (like they're expecting an orgy under the table). It would almost be hilarious (if it wasn't such a sad indictment of our very Sensually Inhibited Culture that stifles the lives of so many people). Seems like such a silly shame. Go figure...
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